Narrative on divorce has changed
Narrative on divorce has changed
Narratives matter. And the narrative of divorce has changed. Let me explain
The social narratives shape the way we think. It can set moral and ethical standards, condone transgression or normalise extreme behaviours. The narrative on divorce has shifted, and it is leaving an impact on society.
Earlier, divorce was shown as a result of neglecting interpersonal relationships in pursuit of individual achievement. In a way, divorce was the toffee in the wrappers of individual achievement. It was a cruel joke on those who disregard relationships in favour of achievements.
The narrative today deals with divorce as a stepping stone to achievement. Divorce is shown as the wrapper you have to unwarp if you want the toffee of individual achievement. People are divorcing so that they may pursue their dreams. Even when they achieve those dreams, they find their victories lacking and hollow. Thus, it starts a lifelong pursuit of filling that hole with material goods and collectable experiences.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and you have to work on it every day. If you do the work, the rewards are phenomenal. Together, two people can achieve things AND be happy and content.
Marry early, marry the right person, and make it work. Think like a team. Work on it, fellows.